Family Finance Lessons
Written by Preet Banerjee

Friday, November 9th, 2018

If you've just started your family, or are thinking about it, there's probably a lot on your mind these days. From thinking about what neighbourhood to live in, starting an education savings fund for the kids, to maybe even taking the plunge and buying a minivan, it seems like there is a never-ending list of big life decisions to make.

Well, here are four simple tips to keep in mind to ensure your finances grow as fast as your family.

My key financial life lesson: Borrowing

This is likely to be the most debt-laden phase of your life. While your income tends to be highest later in your career, many big milestone expenses tend to be higher earlier in your career. Your first home, possibly your first new (or almost new) car, student loans still being paid down, and maybe even some debt from your wedding can seem a bit suffocating. It would be great to be debt-free this early in life, but it's unrealistic for most. A more realistic set of goals at this point is simply: 1) avoid ever carrying a balance on credit cards, and 2) avoid borrowing money ever again for anything that has no value after you purchase it.

My key financial life lesson: Saving

There are two main categories when saving money for the future: the very distant future, and the near future. During the growing family stage, the very distant future really means "retirement". Many people have a good understanding of why it's important to save for retirement, but when it comes to saving for the near future, it may not be as apparent.

Saving for the near future is one great way to control your spending.

Instead of borrowing money for vacations and other larger expenses, where you'll have a set monthly payment after the purchase, switch to saving up set amounts of money per month ahead of time for anything that doesn't grow in value after buying it. Instead of paying interest, earn it.

If your near-term savings can't seem to catch up with your planned near-term expenses, that's a clear signal you're spending beyond your means.

My key financial life lesson: Spending

A quick way to reduce your expenses is to pull up all your credit card and debit card statements for any 30-day period, look for all the automatic expenses that occur on a regular basis, and cancel anything you aren't fully taking advantage of. Today, it seems like everything is cheap when you price it in monthly payments. But it can turn into financial "death by a thousand cuts." If you're not regularly going to your $50/month gym, not maxing out your data allotment on your $80/month cell phone plan, and you've forgotten about all the smaller monthly charges for various online services you're subscribed to, it's time to cut them out. You can always sign back up for them if you truly miss them. But if you don't, you could find yourself with a lot more financial flexibility month in, and month out.

My key financial life lesson: Investing

When you're younger, you'll generally have a smaller portfolio and a longer time until you'll need to access your retirement savings. The conventional wisdom says that the potential of higher long-term returns comes at a cost of higher volatility. But remember, if you subject yourself to risk when you're younger, you have more time to recover if markets go south. Suppose your portfolio is down by 10% in a few months. That might generate a lot of pessimistic headlines in the news. But a 10% drop on a $10,000 portfolio is $1,000. That might be less than a paycheque. Keeping that perspective in mind might make it easier to stay the course when you're learning about the tradeoffs around investing. It's likely that by sticking to your original plan, your portfolio will bounce back to new highs eventually. Learning to stomach volatility when you're just starting out can be a very valuable lesson for the long haul.

With a young family, you've got lots on your mind, financial or otherwise. By keeping these very simple rules of thumb in mind with respect to the building blocks of your finances, it'll be easy to avoid getting overwhelmed.

Further reading:

How Young Families Find Ways to Save Money

Paying for your kids education

How I Save for My Kids, with My Kids


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